Moving on

How many ways are there to have coffee here, or maybe tea? I haven’t begun to decode the options, but I’m having fun taking a run at it. I’ve learned the word for milk, and coffee sounds very much like, well, coffee. Sometimes a small glass of either water or some other liquid is served alongside the coffee, and I haven’t yet learned how to drink it properly.

My last morning in Danang was overcast and threatened rain. My ostensible goal was the bookstore, but I found myself wandering. I discovered narrow streets that fit only pedestrians or bikes, and got little glimpses of everyday life.

This was breakfast as I waited for the bookstore to open.

Later I skirted the edge of a large market, and found myself in streets of various industry, trade and material.

I tried to ask some women what the greens in the middle were called, but when they said a word, I wasn’t sure if it was the name or something else. They then tried to sell me some bananas – a word we were all sure of, and we parted ways.

I stopped in a few electronics stores on a whim to see about getting a remote camera button (thank you Roger for that idea), and while I came away empty handed, the experience was educational. I was met right at the door each time, and using Google translate, I asked my question. The answer was always no, and perhaps it really was true. My dusty shoes soiled the spotless floors though, and I thanked them carefully as they opened the door to show me out. I continued my wanders, until eventually belly issues and rain both threatened and I circled back ‘home’.

There I made some decisions about my last week in Vietnam, booked a flight from Hanoi to Ho Chi Minh and surrendered the idea of going to Sa Pa. I would have spent two days in transit on a bus or another train, and time is short.

These bougainvillea have multiple colors growing from the same vine, or at least so it seems.

And then it was time to gather my things and order a Grab for the short drive to the train station.

Early morning conversation

Early morning coffee in my room. I apologize to you purists out there, but needs must.

I woke thinking about my plans for the day. The only hard and fast schedule is to be on the train at 6 pm, bound for Hanoi. Check out time is 12, so I have to decide soon if I want to pay for an extra half day to keep the room until 4 or 5. Knowing that I will sweat through my clothes before 10 am, I am inclined to pay the extra dong.

Speaking of dong, it is hard to not balk sometimes at paying hundreds of thousands of dong for something, because the idea of hundreds of thousands sounds like a lot. For instance, I paid 1,600,000 dong yesterday for the car and driver, which I had from 7:30 am to about 5 pm. When the hotel clerk quoted me that price the evening before, I had to pause and calculate on my phone what that meant in terms of money I could understand.

The last thing I need is to add anything to my bags, but I saw something about a bookstore here in Danang with books in English. I haven’t read at all on this trip, but that will not deter me from going. I’ve spent little time even reading things on my phone other than directions, between the fact that I’m out and about most of the time, and then having tasks to complete when I’m in the room- laundry, repacking the day bag for the current day’s plans, and making onward plans such as hotel rooms. For me the chores are part of the fun of my style of travel, although it’s not necessarily relaxing. Stepping outside my everyday life like this is energizing and I feel like I’m constantly absorbing, watching, wondering at what I see, and it’s in effect filling my cup constantly. Speaking of cups, pardon me while I refill my instant coffee. It’s still dark here, and too early to find the good stuff.

I’m calculating whether I want to walk or get a Grab to get to the aforementioned bookstore. Google says it opens at 8, which may or may not be so. But I’m going to plan on it, because I can be certain of a nearby coffee stand, or five, in which to while away a little time. Coffee, coffee everywhere. And Grab.

I have only gotten a car with Grab because so far I’ve had bags, but today I will get a bike instead. I quickly learned to spot the bright green jacket and helmet of Grab riders, they too are everywhere. It takes less than five minutes to get picked up, and the price is quoted in the app, so no worries about repeating my experience in the taxi from the airport.

Speaking of jackets- while I was busy dehydrating myself from sweating so much, I noted that most motor bike riders wear jackets, sometimes even puffy jackets. They nearly all wear helmets (it is the law here), except some children. Many wear face masks to avoid grime and exhaust, and some women wear some form of a wrap – not as a modesty thing, but to protect their clothes from the road dust. A lot of bikes with single riders had a spare helmet hanging alongside, I suppose it’s the family car for many. Ho Chi Minh city alone, with about 8.9 million people, has about 7.3 million motorbikes. They are many, and they are everywhere. I shared a photo previously of a beautiful church here, all lit up for a Saturday evening service. I also snapped this second photo- so many had come to church via motorbike, I was astounded.

It’s time to start my Sunday and your Saturday is almost to the yardarm. Off I go.

Snippets of a snippeted day

This morning I had a car and driver to take me to Hue, which is about 2 ½ hours from Danang. Many Americans know of Hue due to the fighting that took place there during the American war. Its history, however, dates back over 20,000 years, to the Sa Huynh culture. I will not attempt to summarize it here, but feel free to check out Wikipedia. We shared the road with a few cows, and stopped at some oyster beds along the way. I also saw ponds along the sea-front that looked like they were used for farming some kind of sea life, but Thinh was intent on the road, so I left him to it and just made up my own stories for the unknown things I saw.

I’ve found it hard to communicate to a driver that I really don’t want to be given the ‘tour’ in the past, and today was no exception. When I arranged the transportation, it was with the desk clerk at my hotel, who is sharp and clearly good at understanding what her guests want. Alas, such nuance was lost on Thinh. I attributed that in part to his youth, but that might be unfair. I tried, by use of Google translate, to tell him to just drop me off in the city center, and we’d meet up later, but he found that instruction confusing. He waited a while, and then offered to take me first to the Imperial City. Since that was on my list anyway, I decided to accept this idea. The Imperial City is actually not as old as I would have expected. It was constructed in the early 1800s by Emperor Gia Long. I wandered through a very small part of it, but the humid warm air drove me in search of shade and fluid. Photos that take in a whole building fail to show the colors and detail, so mostly these are close-ups of details in the bulidings.

I had thought I would rent a bike or scooter today and head out of Hue on my own. But Hue, small as it might be, was larger than I’d expected. I decided it would be wise to wait on that idea. I hope it will work out in Sapa as it is smaller yet. The cities are filled with an incredible number of motor bikes, with truly nuanced rules of the road. I also found out yesterday that at least some places won’t rent to you without an international drivers license, and I figure my chances are better in a small town. Things I saw in Hue –

I visited the Thien Mu temple, and with it the pagoda. This dates back to 1601, and the name is taken from an old lady by the name Thien Mu who foretold that a lord would come and erect an pagoda on the hill. By this point in the day, I ha acquired a sunhat, and so was better equipped to wander in the heat.

Back in my hotel room a few hours later, I showered away the sweat of the day, and booked a hotel room for my next stop. Tomorrow evening I board the train for another overnight to Hanoi. Then I joined the masses on the streets of Danang, on a lovely warm evening. Hot pot for dinner, coconut coffee for after, and a walk along the river front to end the day. The last photo is home, sweet home for one more night.

Peopling and water buffalo

Being incapable of sleeping in can be a problem in a four person train compartment. But that isn’t the beginning of the story. When I boarded my train last evening, I confess to being a little trepidatious about who would be joining me. Being more introvert than not, I would have booked a single compartment if that were an option. There are two person compartments to be had, but I’d rather share with 3 others than just 1, all things considered.

My first bunkmate was an older, clearly unwell man. His adult son helped him to the other lower berth, helped him get situated, and then left. My eyes respectfully averted, I wondered. Next came a daughter or daughter-in-law, who performed a few ministrations, and then she too left. Then came the wife, who sat on his bunk and stayed. I wondered at the protocol, but having established we shared no common language, I fell into silence. I was so ready to sleep, but the unfolding pageant caught my interest. Then came a young man with many bags. He took the bunk above the old man, and chatted with them briefly. Then he spoke to me in English, and we were able to establish a few things. After a bit I saw the wife begin to climb into the bunk above me. I was suddenly concerned that I should have offered her mine. I didn’t mind doing that, but I hadn’t thought she would stay, although as it turned out, of course she would stay. But I also figured that someone would come on board during our journey and claim the bunk I was sleeping in, and indeed that too would have happened. But I offered to trade, via Hutong (the closest I can get to the young man’s name) as translator. He assured me she said no, that I was as old as she (he said it very diplomatically). Hutong was on his way to a work conference, and is also finishing up his master’s in automation technology. When he is done, he will return from Ho Chi Minh city to his hometown and go to work at his parents’ company.

But back to the ill man and wife. The ride was turbulent and the train seemed to scream on the tracks from time to time, so sleep came and went. At one point as I lay there trying to get more comfortable, I heard old man say one word, nothing more. It was not loud, but immediately I heard a one word response from above, and then she descended. I was very nearly moved to tears at the care and love in her speedy and unquestioning response. I don’t know, but I would guess that he is gravely ill, and I saw in her face the fear and pain of impending loss and the great cost of love. Is there anything more precious than to be loved in this way? It brought to mind my mom and dad, who having forged a marriage through thick and thin. My dad was utterly lost after my mom died, and seeing that woman’s face evoked his desperate desire to keep her with him.

This happened once more during the night, and then around 4 am, the attendant came and told them their station was coming. Wife gathered their things and left, son came and did in reverse what was done the night before. I saw in the half light the simple gestures – dad’s hand reaching out in absolute certainty that son would be there to take it, and indeed he was. And they were gone, to be replaced a minute or two later by a couple who quietly stowed their things and laid down.

An hour later, I laid there wanting to get up but I knew the new couple must not have gotten much sleep that night, having to board at 4 am. At 5:30 I stole away with my small bag in hand, and headed down the train in search of the promised restaurant car. I careened my way through about 7 cars, and then came to a locked door. Peering through, I saw that the kitchen staff were in the process of picking up their bedding and transforming the car back into a restaurant car. A man came to the door and somehow made me to understand that they would open at 6. So I waited in an empty row of seats, because it didn’t seem likely I’d bother to make the trek a second time. Besides, everyone in my compartment was sleeping.

When they opened the doors, the young waiter and I used Google translate to determine that I could get coffee and chicken. Unsure what this was, but unwilling to give up the chance at both coffee and food, I agreed. A short time later a dixie cup half full of Vietnamese coffee arrived, and then a man came by with these breadsticks and told me 30. This means 30,000 dong, which I handed over. It didn’t look like chicken but maybe this was something extra? The bread was warm and crusty and did indeed have something chicken-like inside. I sat at the wooden table and watched the early morning through the dirty window, and luxuriated in the moment.

Soon others trickled in, and I saw that pho was also on offer, but I contented myself with my chicken bread. A man silently took the bench across from me and I ordered a second coffee because the first was so good.

Back in the compartment, I met Dominic and Mel, who were awake and chatting quietly. We slid past endless rice paddies, egrets standing in the fields -and once on top of a water buffalo, but I couldn’t get a photo of that fast enough. We pulled through small towns, past more rice paddies and fields of corn, squash and other things I could not identify from the train. Dom and Mel and I variably stood in the corridor, sat in our compartment, and wandered from time to time. Food carts rolled by, and I was done with the ride before it was done with me. Some scenes from the train window . . .

And water buffalos that I hope delight you as they did me.

Interesting to note that I will be doing this again in a few days’ time, from here to Hanoi. It’s a beautiful route, seen through dust and smudge, and one I won’t need to take again. That is the way of some things, isn’t it? You don’t know without trying it whether you want to do it or not. I love train travel, but my introverted soul desires a place to retreat to from time to time. Sitting across from others, one has a social contract to fulfill, especially when they are as nice as Hutong, Mel and Dom turned out to be. But had I a retreat, I would not have witnessed the sweet and painful moments in the night.

On arrival in Danang, I did some laundry and headed out to see things. More on that to come.

What time is it really?

The jet lag is real. I was up and out early this morning, traipsing around and just taking in what I could. I started with coffee next door to the hotel, which gave me a great spot for people watching and to observe the scooters and cars maneuvering around each other. The traffic came in waves, presumably because of a traffic light down the street that I couldn’t see.

I wandered along back streets, between the river and opera house, and finally when I was soaked with my own sweat and sure it must be noon, I stopped for a coconut coffee. Too late I remembered I’m supposed to avoid ice here. I guess time will tell about that. It was only 8:30 am, so I dipped a toe in the Cho Ben Thanh, a sprawling market, and poked around the Independence Palace.

I went back to my room for a cooldown and back out again for a few hours before I go to the train station. It’s 96 degrees fahrenheit here, and only 84 in Da Nang. I sense chill awaiting me as I make my way north.

Now to stay awake until it’s time to go to the train.

I’ve nothing to declare

Today (and last night) were mostly about transiting, which is usually 3 parts boring to 1 part interesting. While there are nearly always surprises in going someplace new. I compounded that with a silly mistake. I was at SFO waiting to board my flight, when the gate agents explained very kindly that I have to have a visa in advance for Vietnam. How I forgot that, I don’t know. I had checked on the requirements for Taiwan, since I knew I had time to leave the airport. It made for a little panic and sweat, although they were willing to let me board the flight to Taiwan without it- of course the risk was on me if I did that. Apparently it’s common enough that they already knew how it needed to be addressed, and were surprisingly very nice about it. So I sat on the floor in the gate area, taking repeated photos of my passport and scrambling to respond to the emails and WhatsApp messages from the visa service. $300 later, and I was all set. But I sure felt foolish. I caught the sunset above while on the Groome bus to the airport.

On arrival in Taipei, or more accurately Taoyuan, I trusted my bag to a locker, and went for a ride on the metro, to see what I could see and get some breakfast.

With a total of 8 hours, some of which were taken up with deplaning, customs and immigration, and then checking back in on the other end, I didn’t have time to do much. I also wanted a little time to explore the airport, because I had read that it had some cool features. One among them ended up being a free shower.

And now I’ve landed in Ho Chi Minh City, the center of which is still called Saigon. I found a delightful hotel, so small that it has only two rooms per floor (5 floors). I had a scuffle with the taxi driver on the way here, but all’s well that ends well, they say. Tomorrow evening I board a train for Da Nang, so my time here is mostly about getting my legs under me. But I’ll be back at the end of the trip. It’s a city of 9 million, most of which are on a scooter or motorbike. I got the chance to practice my frogger skills in crossing the road this evening.

Home, sweet home for tonight

A season of waiting, and of not

It’s been a little while. I read something recently about how life isn’t a straight progression from birth to death, that there are seasons, if you will. For the last several years, travel has been mostly infeasible. First there was Covid, and then a teaching schedule that limited my options, and then over the past couple of years, it was the season of my father’s gradual decline and eventual death. I felt suspended during this latter time, sometimes wanting to go travel, but always unsure about doing so. With my dad’s death in January, another season of life seems to have come. And so I’m embarking on a small adventure Monday night.

As before, I plan to write about what I see here, so if you want to, feel free to read along. I particularly like getting comments, even if the time difference means a long lag between your comment and my response.

I’m traveling light again, at least for the going out. Coming home I hope to have some few treasures in my bag. I’m flying on Starlux, an airline I had not heard of before. We route through Taipei where I have a long enough layover that I’m planning to do a teeny bit of exploring. Then on to Ho Chi Minh aka Sai Gon.

Lost on Purpose

I betook myself car camping this weekend, in part to try it out. While I generally prefer to use transit when moving about the world, some places can’t be seen without a car. I also wanted to visit the area known as the Lost Coast. Apparently it is so named because it is so rugged that highway makers decided to move inland rather than try to make a road through it. It is indeed filled with rugged hills, steep ravines, and as a result- tortuous roads that sometimes turn into a one lane road, more suited to the moniker of ‘trail’. Sometimes the broken and heaved asphalt turned into gravel without warning. My little car got a work out maneuvering through and around ruts and holes, and recovering from swales in the road that were hidden in the dappled sunlight as seen through my dirty windshield. There were no guard rails or warnings of precipitous drop-offs. The roads were a series of switchbacks, and at times so narrow that I approached a hair pin curve around which I could see nothing in second gear and really, really hoping I was not about to meet an oncoming car.

Despite the demand for focus on the road, it was a lovely sojourn on back roads, through very small towns and junctions. I stopped at an abbey found deep in the woods on Briceland Road, picked rose hips from roadside bushes, and gathered driftwood along Mattole Road.

I slept in my car on a moon-lit night, and discovered that I need a better sleeping pad. I made coffee and breakfast in the morning, and took off at sunrise to explore. It was too many miles in just a couple of days of sitting in my car- another thing learned. But as a test run, it served very well.

To a soft landing

The modern oasis- airport lounges. My tickets for this jaunt were business class from Oakland to Cairo by way of LA and Paris, due to a screaming deal I saw on Faredrop. It made the long flights, and even the layovers, a very different experience than flying economy. I may have started with a bit of imposter syndrome but I quickly adapted to the lie-flat bed, free food that is pretty good, assurance that I won’t have to worry about overhead bin space, and just being treated nicer overall. It’s not fair, and part of me struggles with why we have to pay to be treated well. But it really made a difference in places strange to me, where I didn’t know the language and didn’t know how to read the signs to know where to stand in line, or what order to do things in. A flash of a boarding pass with ‘business class’ on it just changed things. I was able to compare the experiences in a fairly close parallel because my flights between Cairo and Casablanca were coach, whereas when I flew into and out of Cairo at the beginning and end of the trip I was flying business class. Wooeeyy.

By the time I got here to LA early this evening, I’d been in transit about 24 hours, and I smelled like it. But here in the lounge I was able to take a shower -and put my dirty clothes back on, because I didn’t plan well for that. Still, the shower made such a difference. And of course, free food, drinks and wifi, all in the comfort of a clean, spacious waiting area with copious amounts of power outlets.

I’d like to say I came to some kind of new understanding of myself or the world this trip. Rather than a grand awakening, it has been more a combination of brushing up some skills made rusty by non-use the past 3 years, and a further accumulation of awareness of the larger world. It’s very hard not to develop tunnel vision in the day to day rhythms of life, so even though it was hard to pull this trip off for a few reasons, it turns out that I needed it. I found myself stretched and challenged anew to look beyond my presumptions. And to be ok with being soaked with sweat. And to see getting lost as part of the experience too- that I did plenty of.

I leave you with some of my favorite photos from the trip. Thank you for coming along, it has been a pleasure to try to share what I was seeing, tasting and experiencing.

Draining the dregs from the cup

Today was my last day in Cairo, which meant I had a couple of housekeeping tasks. I checked in online, of course. In addition to packing, I needed to arrange a ride to the airport at 0 dark thirty (2 am), make sure my passport and other needed documents got moved from what I refer to as deep storage into a ready access place, that kind of thing. I also had a bit of work to do.

I decided to spend the earlier part of the day doing a bit more exploring, and save the chores for the heat of the day. However, I got a later start than planned, as my stomach was announcing it’s displeasure with something I ate.

I walked to the metro and bought four tickets, which turned out to be good planning, because I rode to the wrong connection point and then compounded my error by going the wrong way on the wrong line for a bit before I figured it out. Eventually the metro spit me out near the area known as Islamic Cairo. I wandered in a semi- purposeful fashion in the general direction of the next metro stop, taking in the sights of everyday life, at least for some Cairenes. I know there is a lot more to the city, but what can one really see in a few days? I saw a donkey pulling a cart with propane tanks stacked in on the cart, men sipping shishka and watching the world go by, vegetable stands, fish markets, and of course cars, buses and motorcycles vying with pedestrians for the streets.

In the center of the city, a traffic cop urges traffic to move quickly, quickly, until the light changes, then his imperious hand points to the red light. While traffic sits, e sees someone he knows, walks over miss intersection to shake his hand.

I happened to find myself near a beautiful looking church- St. Mark’s Coptic Orthodox Cathedral, and decided I’d like to see the inside. It was heavily guarded however, with a concrete wall around the perimeter. I found the entrance and followed a school group to the metal detector/bag scanner place. A man looks at me and says, who are you? I had no idea. At least not in any fashion he would want to know. As I stood there a few others behind me came up, and pulled up their sleeves, displaying a tattoo on their inner arms that apparently marked them as Christians, as he waved them right in. Eventually he decided I was harmless as an American, and he waved me in. However, I never got inside the church itself. Perhaps there was a way, but I could not see it, and it turns out today was the day for hordes of school children to come visit. The sun beat down and I fled in defeat.

The ride home on the metro was uneventful and easy. Orang had notified me I was out of internet, so I made a stop at an Orang store, where the woman who waited on me apologized for keeping me waiting, little knowing I was reveling in their air conditioning and really not in a hurry. Resupplied, I headed back out in the heat, because the hours were dwindling. Speaking of dwindling hours, I have to leave for the airport in 6 hours, so I’m hoping to sleep shortly.