Loose ends

It’s a wrap- I’m back in the real world, at least as I know it. The jet lag will remind me for a few days. My goal today is to stay up until at least 8 pm.

Except for the time it takes to get there and back, I found Vietnam easy for travel. That’s not to say it’s always simple, but the courtesy and helpfulness of everyone I interacted with, whether they were going to make any money off me or not, was unflagging. Their civility extends to each other as well. I was in awe of their ability to get along on city streets choked with traffic, their small courtesies before beginning a transaction, and how safe I felt. It’s the kind of place where you can pull your phone out in public and wander around with it, you can show your money to a shopkeeper and they will pick out only what is owed, and when a price is quoted, that is the price (with the exception of taxis).

Things that stood out beyond the every day civility I encountered: the food, coffee in more forms than I knew were possible, floating markets, not-floating markets, rice fields, hidden narrow streets in the cities, the ease of getting a Grab anytime, all come to mind. I’m sure I’m forgetting some things already.

I tried to select some of my favorite photos, although some are favorites more because of the memory they evoke than the shot itself. Thank you for reading along with me.

Being a sponge

By 11:30 am, it was 91 degrees and humid, and still getting warmer.  I am spending my last day here wandering yet again,  for now in Cholon. Cholon began as a settlement of Chinese who migrated to the area during the 18th century, in part to escape retribution by a rival faction. The city itself was originally about 11 km from then-Saigon, but now there is no way to tell when one ends and the other begins if you don’t know. Cholon is Ho Chi Minh’s Chinatown, and reportedly is one of the largest in the world.

Because of the heat and distance,  I took a Grab to the Ten Thousand Buddha Pagoda as a jumping off point. It did not disappoint. The fifth floor has the Buddha for which it is named,  but each floor has its own.  It appears there are monks living here. Their living quarters and what appear to be areas for study can be seen off the main area. No photos there of course.

I walked for hours, stopping every now and then for a coffee, or lunch, or any excuse for the use of a toilet and some AC until I’d recovered just a bit, then off again to soak in all that I can.

Tired feet

Ho Chi Minh City views – my favorites are still the tiny alleyways and side streets that don’t fit a car. Some have businesses located on them, so it’s ok to wander down and look around. Others are micro-neighborhoods, and I just wonder from the street what secrets they hold. High rises abound, and some hold their own treasures. So many apartment buildings have plants crawling up and down them from each balcony. The parks were in heavy use today, it being Sunday. Despite that, no one, not even children, played or even walked on the grass. Everyone stayed on the paved walkways, even sitting on the hard concrete at times. There must be some unwritten rule about this.

I know better by now than to just start crossing the street on a walk sign. As Ella told us on the Hanoi food tour, don’t make eye contact and whatever you do, don’t hesitate or dash, just maintain your pace. The bikes and cars will weave around you, although sometimes by inches.

The method of making a left turn on bikes in particular is fascinating. The motorbike will drive into the oncoming traffic lane, and they play a fairly polite game of chicken, then the bike cuts the corner all the way left and then generally crosses over to the right lane again. If you are a pedestrian who thinks that you need only watch the traffic coming from the left as you step off the curb, you’re in for a surprise. I’ve also found out that these walk and don’t walk signs change without warning. There’s no flashing period before the light changes, it is just suddenly red and you are in the middle of 8 lanes of traffic all going various directions.

I’m fascinated by what can be carried on a bike.

There’s a fair amount of recycling and composting done, as far as I can tell. There are some dumpsters and trash bins, but not very many. There are also people who collect specific things, like this woman.

However, the routine seems to be that businesses put their trash out by the curb in small bags daily. At some point those bags disappear. I was fascinated to see that one of the informal ‘processing’ stations is right beside my hotel door. There each evening when I come home, one or two people are breaking down boxes, emptying plastic cups and food containers, and organizing all those things right there on the sidewalk. I don’t see what happens to them after that, and perhaps that’s for the best. But I’m certain that the people doing this would not do it continuously if there were not a market for these things.

It felt like I walked miles in the hot and humid day. Final stop of the evening, for a mango tea.

Remainders of yesterday

I mentioned in my prior post that I was having difficulty getting photos loaded on WordPress. So much for my freeloading days, I’ve had to pay for more storage and we’re back at it. Yesterday after the floating market, we went up a quiet river or inlet of some kind. I felt like I was in the Louisiana bayous, although I’ve never been.

We stopped in at a noodle factory, which felt a little gimmicky, but who am I to judge? Sal told me what plants were used to create the colors in the noodles. The only one that I remember for sure is that the yellow is made using turmeric root. I got to try picking up the freshly cooked rice noodle and depositing it on the rack as this man is doing. Needless to say, mine was a little wrinkly, and was saved only by this man’s interference.

Then we stopped at what Sal said is the largest market in Can Tho, and wandered a bit, dodging motorbikes constantly. There were all the vegetables, fruit, various kinds of meat and a lot of fish. I saw live and butchered frogs, eel, snakes, even butchered rats. I tried to keep the horror from my face at that knowledge. Sal told me he eats all of these things. Snakes are an expensive treat. I’ve seen durian at all the markets, but haven’t had the chance to try it yet. So many kinds of rice! Sal explained the uses of some of them, which I promptly forgot.

Then Sal saw the ice cream bicycle and so we had a treat before getting back on the boat to go home.

Zigging and zagging

I had a little time to kill this morning before I’m picked up for the bus back to Ho Chi Minh, so I first went for coffee.  Then I decided to check out a grocery store,  which led to some wandering, because at every intersection I had to choose which way to meander, and I was lured by the sights and sounds in a zig zag fashion.

I was zig zagging my way back to my room, taking my time because I have until 11. I saw this place and stopped for banh mi and more coffee. The banh mi stand is separate from the coffee place, but when I motioned at the table under the roof (shade!), she waved me on. So I sat in the open air coffee shop while she worked, at one point coming over with a couple of pieces of chili and said words I didn’t understand.  I nodded because, why not? 

Meanwhile I was having a conversation with a young waiter from the coffee place about this menu – via Google translate.  For reasons not clear to me, each time I order coffee I also get a small glass of tea with it.

The zig zagging continued and I happened on this group of vendors outside what looked like a wholesale market, who were repairing or making new shows, one was working a sewing machine to fashion some garment and customers waited while they worked. I didn’t want to stick my phone in their faces, so this is the best I could do.

Then another market along the river bank. As I wandered the market, my brother David video called, and so we walked the market together for a while. How fun! Since I still have some market photos from yesterday, I’ll spare you more than these few.

I cooled down (again) in my room, and finished packing. As I Ieft my room at 11, the young woman who had helped me with various things was there to shepherd me to the spot where I was to meet my shuttle to the bus station, and stayed to make sure I was on. We chatted as we waited, and she told me she grew up about 120 km from there, but had come to Can Tho for university and then stayed. I heard the same from my guide on the river yesterday, and it sounds very similar to what a lot of college graduates do in the US. They stay on and start adult life where they went to school. I asked about coffee but she confessed she doesn’t like it, she drinks juices mostly. Her favorite is papaya. I think mine so far is mango. She refused any kind of tip as I left, and I felt I had been cared for well throughout my stay there.

Back in Ho Chi Minh and whiling away a bit more time as I wait for my hotel room to be ready. I was having trouble posting photos yesterday and it turns out it’s because I have exceeded the storage capacity on WordPress’s free account. Oops, I guess it’s time to pay. I’ll do a little catch up now that’s been solved.

Early morning outing

Aside from a less than comfortable 3 hour bus ride, the journey from Hanoi in the north of Vietnam through Ho Chi Minh, and on to Can Tho in the Mekong Delta, the journey was smooth. I worried when I saw the ‘limousine’ van we were to ride in, and I got grumpy when the person in the seat in front of me dropped her seat back into my lap. The guy across from me commiserated in words I didn’t understand. When we stopped for a rest break, I asked the driver about getting dropped in the town center instead of at the bus company’s office, now understanding that it was a bit of a distance. He wasn’t interested in my questions, but another passenger intervened and negotiated with him. I finally left them to it and ran to the toilet, not wanting to miss the opportunity. But sure enough, when we got near to the city, the passenger turned back to me and suggested I get dropped at some unknown point on the map, as it would be closer. It turned out all the others were getting off there anyway. I booked a Grab and he was there before I could put my phone away.

This city lights up at night.

My room has a kitchen, not that I’m going to cook while here. It also has a washing machine in the hall that I am free to use.

I had booked a tour for early today on the river, so I had to go in search of an ATM and food. The ATM turned out to be harder than expected, and it was getting late for a 4:30 am wake up, so I skimped on dinner and went back to do a load of laundry and get organized for the next day.

I walked out into the darkness this morning to find Sal waiting for me. We took his motorbike to the pier, where we met the boat captain, and off we went. It was pretty magical watching the day break as we motored down river.

About 40 minutes later, we arrived at the floating market. Sal said that the local street and store sellers come here to buy wholesale from the boats. Now, of course, there’s also the tourist trade. We ate a noodle dish and drank our coffee, both purchased from the boats that Sal knew to look for.

Most of the boats have these long poled propellers, and from time to time later in the smaller river, our captain had to stop and unwrap some plastic that had gotten wound round the propellers.

Each boat puts up a long pole with the item or items they have for sale tied to it, so buyers know who to approach. The regular sales start around 3 am, so a lot of that was already done when we arrived, although not quite all.

Sal said that the boat sellers go up river and buy from growers, then come down to these markets for a couple weeks. Then they repeat that process, living on their boats.

Moving day letter

I’ve slept in the same bed for three nights straight, but this morning the repacking chore was due. If I were a better human, I’d be more organized throughout my stay, but each outing seems to require different things – passport- maybe but not usually, debit card or just cash, jacket or no, and so it goes. I keep things in categories but they are not tidy.

Also, I’ve picked up a few things, so the load needed to shift. My flight is at a very civilized hour, so I had time for breakfast, a little work, and packing, and left the hotel about 8:30. But before I left, I sat down to gather my thoughts, and this tea and gift appeared.

I confess that my first thought on seeing the woman bearing the gift bag was ‘will this put me over the weight limit?’ I’m flying domestic to Ho Chi Minh and they take their baggage limitations seriously. It was a lovely gesture though, and turned out to be quite light.

Now I’m sitting beside my gate at a pleasant cafe with an outlet beside my table, and whiling away the next half hour writing to you. Once I land in Ho Chi Minh and collect my bag – yes I have a checked bag now, I have a couple of hours to get to where I am (hopefully) catching my bus to Can Tho. I was nervous about making the connection too tight, so I decided to plan on stopping for lunch or lunner, or whatever that will be.

My bus leaves at 4 pm, and I’m directed to be there by 3:30 in order to pay or I may lose my seat. I’ve read a bit about the poor bus service here, so I went with the line that seemed to have higher-ish ratings and less likely to cancel. When you book, they say they have the right to cancel or rebook, willy nilly, so I decided not to pay online. Whether that was wise is yet to be determined.

I have a room at the Midmost House in Can Tho, another ‘balcony’ room. The one I had in Hanoi was about 6 inches deep, although I could open the french doors and get fresh air. So I am not sure what to expect in Can Tho. Anyway, my phone is fully charged, and I’m off to walk around before boarding. See you in Ho Chi Minh.

Things seen on the streets of Hanoi

I love the sights, sounds, smells and all of what makes a market. People roll up on their scooters, and never even have to alight for the short transaction. The meat stand operators cut the meat up however you want it as you wait. It’s hard to be a gawker here, because many times you are walking in the road or the gutter, alongside scooters, cars and bikes. The sidewalk is often blocked by rows of parked scooters or vendors with their wares. Horns honk incessantly, and the number one rule is, don’t veer or hesitate. Despite the chaos, riders and drivers will yield to pedestrians, albeit very much last minute and with a few inches to spare. At least in market and shopping areas, there is no such thing as a casual stroll.

I sometimes asked what something was if for no other reason than to engage. It was usually unsuccessful with respect to getting a name, but I am not likely to remember it anyway. This particular stand, the woman’s answer was ‘oleander’.

At another point, I was musing out loud, since it was clear the stand-keeper was not going to respond. I was standing at the edge of the road, because the sidewalk was consumed by the food stands. A woman passing very closely on her scooter was pausing for traffic, and she responded. She told me the name of the root in Thai, and said she is Thai, and explained very briefly how it is used in their cuisine. I said thank you, and she drove away. I’m no more the wiser, but the interaction was lovely.

And more from my wanderings today in the Ngoc Ha neighborhood. I took a Grab to the general vicinity and then wandered for hours in the small lanes. There were some dead ends involved.

I actually started my wanderings with a visit to the Women’s Museum, which covers a lot of traditional customs specific to a woman’s role. Some societies in what is now Vietnam were matrilineal, and it was interesting to note that in at least one of them, the youngest daughter is the one who inherits.

Everywhere one goes here, there are reminders of the French occupation, and on the heels of that, the American War. As I wandered today, I ran across, quite by accident, this enduring reminder of what it was to live in a war zone. I didn’t get a great photo of the actual wreckage in the water, at first not quite believing what it was.

One floor of the Women’s Museum covers women who were warriors, activists, heroes. Yesterday I was moved to tears in the Maison Centrale, and today this photo was near the end of the exhibit. I have nothing new to add on the subject of the horrors of war, subjugation and colonialism. This mama’s face tells all.

It’s a small world, Hercules

Most people reading this know me, and most of those who know me know I have four beloved siblings. I like to call them my siblinks. One of them is my brother David, who was in Vietnam early this year. David collects people like I collect, well, nothing. So of course he made friends with the pedicab driver he used in Hanoi. And so I contacted Vinh via Whatsapp, and he was outside my hotel at 9 am this morning.

He took me to see some of the sights of Hanoi, including the tomb of Ho Chi Minh (the outside, we didn’t go in), a few Buddhist temples, the Catholic cathedral, and several other sites of note. I toured the Hanoi Hilton while he waited with his cab. My thoughts on that visit will have to wait.

We visited the famous train street, just in time to experience a train rushing past.

I took pictures of monuments and important buildings when Vinh suggested it, and enjoyed the opportunity to have a local tell me what was worth seeing. However, in the end, it is the photos of everyday life that grab my attention.

We ate pho for lunch at the place that Vinh says has the best in all Hanoi. The fried dough in the pink bowl is dipped in the pho, and it was so good, Vinh went back for extra servings of those for both of us. Vinh’s home is about 150 km away from Hanoi, but like his father and uncle before him, he comes to the city for 3-4 months at a time, and then goes home for a short time. He proudly showed me a photo of him and his wife with their three daughters. One is finished with university, one will graduate this year, and one is still in high school. We ran into his uncle on the street in the afternoon, he too was working with a pedicab.

About 2 pm, I started to feel the need to wander on my own, so we headed toward the hotel, stopping for a couple of purchases along the way. I’ll save the rest of the day for another post, as this is getting a little long. I feel like I lived three days today.

Hello Hanoi

I have so many things to catch you up on. Arriving Monday at midday on the train in Hanoi, I got a Grab within minutes and off we went to the hotel, where I discovered I had accidentally upgraded myself (and the price). Then I had no time to shower, it was off to meet up for Ella’s Food Tour. Our group of ducklings following Ella hither and yon was comprised of fifteen Israelis, two Germans and me. Interestingly, the Israelis were all groups of 2 and one group of 3, and none of them knew anyone else in the group prior to the tour. Apparently this is a popular spot for travel from Israel. The common spoken language between all of us was English, but the Israelis spoke with each other in Hebrew. I don’t have to tell you the food was fantastic. I tried to pace myself, but failed after about the third stop. Fortunately there was a fair bit of walking between stops.

I forgot to take photos at some places. I intend to revisit that place where we got coconut ice cream with sticky rice and fruit. Wow. We finished with coffee and went our separate ways. I called a clinic I had found online and took a Grab bike over to see the doctor, get a prescription and be on my way, all within a half hour and for less than $200. Also wow.

I also saw my first bike crash as I was leaving the clinic. I had ordered yet another Grab bike pickup, and as he pulled to a stop to pick me up, a bike behind him failed to notice, and crashed into the back of the Grab bike. It was apparently unharmed, and other than startling the driver, he seemed fine. The other bike went down and copious amounts of fluid I assume was fuel ran out on the street. A random woman helped him right it, and he smiled as he pushed it up on the curb. Everyone was cheerful and no one showed any upset. The Grab driver handed me my helmet, and off we went.

I see no one here hanging on to the bike as they ride behind the driver, but I clutched both sides for dear life and tried not to think about how my helmet flopped loosely on my head.

I wandered the streets for a while, and fell into bed soon after, grateful to have a soft mattress and no jolts and train sounds in the night.